I’m not a philosopher, just a fellow living his life as best he can

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While 2015 has had its up-and-down moments; my particular annus horribilis was 1996. It was wretched from beginning to end, this past year has been wretched in bits – like when Max left us.gn

Lost loves are meant to stay that way. There is a reason they are lost.

If there were a single word essence to my philosophy it would be ‘forgiveness.’

In one of her drunken rambles my mother once said in reference to two of her sons (both of whom were present): “You were always the smart one and Colin was the good looking one. Thus damning us both. Forgiveness still comes hard for this one. Maybe someday.

I love my brother, Colin, dearly. And he me. We both cherish that and need it. Mom did not sour that relationship though I think she wanted to. For whatever reason.

Ants are intriguing
. They ‘speak’ to one another. There are more of them than there are of us. They are likely more important.DSCN2312

Because I was ‘too talkative’
in my third grade class the teacher banished me to sit on the ‘girls’ side of the room I was in heaven. I suspect that was where it all began.

Maybe I was a class clown, but never thought of myself as such. But I was funny. I know that now.

A kid in junior high once asked me how I knew a particular fact. I said I had read it. “Is that all you do is read?” he asked disdainfully. He became a plumber. He probably made more money than I ever did.

The stupidest waste of a year of my life came when I, after I got my degree, decided to take secondary teacher training. It was all inane. You either are a teacher or not, and no half-baked pedant can teach you to be one. I was a natural teacher, though I didn’t stick it out. I hated the politics.DSCN1333

Good reporters follow the wisdom of the old guys. Read some H.L. Mencken and Ernie Pyle and you don’t need much more.

In loving ‘more’ is not necessarily ‘better.’

Every man should someday meet with a femme fatale. You learn from that – if you survive. I survived, after a fashion, though I’m not sure I entirely recovered.

Drug addicts have found their ‘happy place’, but it is a brief one punctuated by depravity, dishonesty and despair.

I believe in God but I don’t need somebody in a white backwards collar to interpret God for me. I don’t go to church and have no yen to. I do love the great cathedrals of Europe, however.

A friend went on three spiritual pilgrimages to India in vain attempt to find his true spirituality. Eventually he found it was inside himself all the time and he could have saved the airfare.

Vancouver
likes to sell itself as a ‘world-class city.’ It is nothing of the sort. True world-class cities (and there are others) that I have spent time in include London, San Francisco, Montreal, and Dublin. Dublin may seem like a bit of a backwater, but there is more history and soul (albeit often misguided) on a single block of O’Connell Street than in the whole of Vancouver.

The best Chinese restaurant
I ever visited was in Honolulu’s Chinatown.

I got Griffin, my cat, at the beginning of 1997. He got old and spare of shank, and left us at the age of 20.

I rarely cry. I mist, but rarely cry. But I did in early 1997. Great racking sobs that lasted hours. I think it was needed. That was amended, however, when Max left. Just mentioning his name brought tears to my eyes. The passing of my parents was easiere to take.

Love may keep us together, but money seems to be a vital part of the equation, too.

I’ve had many crushes in my life. I always remember them, and sometimes they have lasted down the years. They must never be realized. That destroys the mythology.

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4 responses to “I’m not a philosopher, just a fellow living his life as best he can

  1. roselefebvre24@comcast.net

    A nice glimpse into the man you are. I find it interesting and touching. rose

  2. Thank you for putting my town into your world class cities. High praise coming from a world class guy. Loved this post.

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